Aaha Aaha By Kalyanamalai Mohan

Thiruvarur Komala
The dead came alive
Pannai Veetu Thirumanam
The girl flew to U.S to select her groom
Two marriages under the same Pandal
Sattanadar the great
Dubai Brother in law’s marriage
Mala's marriage is a Maha mela
Vatsala's Marriage A Coach without engine
The game played by the girl’s father
Caught in the trap of sorrow – an experience which a parent should never come across
Vidhya’s decisiveness is right
Engineer Mappillai
What had happened in aunt's house
Mangalam vows and fights injustice
Love is stronger than brain
Marriages Through Kalyaanamalai
The gifted wife
God's will
Has she done it
One who is destined to the other
Is my family an unfortunate one
The one & only heart & Soul of mine
Experience is a lesson
What is preventing the duo from uniting in wedlock
Long live good souls
Vathsala marriage
Be patient while looking for alliances
They were not mere words, but reality
We are all here for her
Kalyaana vaibhogame
Questions and my answers
Candid outlook

Be patient while looking for alliances...!

The community meets organized by Kalyanamalai is benefiting many, we hear. It is more hazardous to keep contacting people continuously for the sake of varans. But at the community meets, parties belonging to the same community gather and exchange portfolios of their daughters/sons. This renders finalization of alliances very easy and time-saving. At the same time, when people meet and interact with each other, they learn about the hardships and problems faced by others. This leads to more wisdom and flexibility in the minds of everyone. And, I, being the organizer of the meet, gain more and more experience by my interaction with various kinds of people. And, my ability to suggest solutions to problems also improves.

I’ll now share an incident that took place at the Madurai meet, held fifteen days ago. Arthi belongs to Shiva Pillai community. The girl’s Periyappa and Periyamma came along with her to attend the meet as Aarthi had lost her parents in an accident. But they had doubted whether it was an accident or planned murder. Aarthi’s father’s younger brother had been living with them for the past 20 years. They doubted that as Aarthi’s parents were very rich, this younger brother might have murdered Aarthi’s parents for the sake of property. Periyappa and Periyamma were keen on getting a reliable boy for Aarthi. In their anxiety, they had contacted some 50 marriage brokers. But they all had only made money by exploiting them. Then, finally they registered with Kalyanamalai under the ‘Exclusive scheme’ category. I assured them help and at the same time cautioned them not to take any stranger into confidence regarding varans since unscrupulous people will always try to exploit any situation to their advantage. So, I request the parents to remain patient and verify all the details of the varan before finalizing.